I've had times where I was like -- it's a sidebar note in a conversation and they have to stop and process and I'm sitting here going wait, why are we having this conversation, I know I've already done this thing around you, did it just not take? Did you not listen? What the hell, can we get back to the conversation that we were having.

And oh god, poly is its own fun coming out for sure. I don't generally even bother with that one most of the time, because it also bounces off most people's heads when you're wired poly but currently only in a single romantic/sexual relationship, and it's rarely worth it at this point.