Now, if it worked the other way, and you could get someone to hold off just by telling them to, I'd dig that, too.
Ooh, my husband can do that. Sometimes he has to pause for 10 seconds or so and sometimes it's just a matter of him changing tempo, but he can pretty much last for as long as you want. Er. For as long as *I* want, which is usually not more than 30 minutes at one time, though I think his personal record is more than an hour of non-stop intercourse. (FWIW, the average male takes 2-1/2 minutes to achieve orgasm, while the average female takes 12, according to that study on women who are non-orgasmic during sex.)
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Ooh, my husband can do that. Sometimes he has to pause for 10 seconds or so and sometimes it's just a matter of him changing tempo, but he can pretty much last for as long as you want. Er. For as long as *I* want, which is usually not more than 30 minutes at one time, though I think his personal record is more than an hour of non-stop intercourse. (FWIW, the average male takes 2-1/2 minutes to achieve orgasm, while the average female takes 12, according to that study on women who are non-orgasmic during sex.)