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Keep Hoping Machine Running ([personal profile] thefourthvine) wrote2010-10-12 11:46 am

A Question for You

I want to thank those of you who said such amazingly wonderful things about me on [personal profile] meloukhia's love meme. I found those comments during a week that contained both a truly horrible round of bronchitis for the entire household and an ant invasion, and, really, I think the love meme was the good part of that week. So thank you not only for being nice, but for having perfect timing. You are awesome.

And, as payment, I am going to ask you to be more awesome. I'm sorry. It's just - I have questions. And I am hoping you have answers.

A Question about Cameras!

My birthday is fast approaching. And this year, I am resolved not to say, "I have no idea, um, whatever, I guess" when family members ask me what I'd like. This year, I am going to say, "Please put some money towards a new camera for me!" Because the camera I take all the earthling photos on has been good, but its annoying features annoy me more with each passing month. Also, it has started to have problems focusing. As in, it will sometimes take 20 or 30 pictures in a row without noticing that it is set to You Forgot Your Glasses mode. And these days there is a really dramatic pause between when I hit the button and when the picture is actually taken, a pause sometimes long enough that the earthling has not only moved out of the frame, but has also gone all the way to his room and selected a new outfit to change into. This suggests to me that its time as Main Household Camera is drawing to a close.

The last time I bought a camera, I knew nothing about them at all. This time, I have progressed to not knowing much about cameras but knowing what I don't like. I am hoping that somewhere out there there is a person who knows actual real things about cameras, who can provide me with shopping advice, including camera makes and so on.

I really, really want:
  • Fast shutter speed. I want to hit the button and have the camera respond by taking the picture at that moment. Not in a few seconds. Not after the tiny camera elves get the memo. Not after the next EU president comes into office. Right then.
  • Whatever it is that makes you able to take in-focus photos of fast-moving people in relatively low light conditions (in other words, indoors, during the daytime) without the flash. I know there are cameras that can do this! Mine, however, will not.
I really want (but am prepared to live without, if all the other features were perfect):
  • A lot of optical zoom. Digital zoom is just not the same.
  • Quick focusing and zooming ability, and no weird thing where I cannot zoom while the previous picture is displayed on the LCD screen.
  • A viewfinder.
  • A camera that does not require a degree to use. Or, if a degree is required, it should be one in biochemistry or forensic osteology, not photography or engineering.
  • A camera that will fit into my diaper bag. It does not need to be tiny, but it does need to be smaller than, for example, my head. (One of the parents at the earthling's preschool has a camera that looks like it could conquer Kansas. It is very, very large, and has many removable lenses and other weird attachments including some things I swear I've also seen my oral surgeon use, and basically just seems underemployed taking photos of a toddler. It would be more suited to taking surveillance photos. Of bacteria. From Mars. That is too much camera for me.)
A Question about Gay History!

I am assuming that, fandom being what it is, there is someone somewhere in fandom who has a lot of knowledge of queer history. (If you know such a person, and that person is not on my friends list, I would greatly appreciate it if you'd point said person this way.) I am looking for books on what gay life was like in New York City before Stonewall - say, from 1930 to 1960. Anywhere in there. Non-fiction preferred, but I will read fiction if it's authentic and no one dies or ends up crazy or locked up somewhere or grimly involved in a loveless straight marriage because gay people can never be happy.

A Question about Mary Balogh (Spelling Potentially Contested)!

Best Beloved would like to start reading her works, and would appreciate some guidance on the best of them. What's a good first Balogh? BB likes good writing, and I hear from several of you that Balogh delivers on this front. She does not like non-con, heroines younger than 18, or infidelity.

(Note: The spelling of Mary Balogh's name is potentially contested because in our household her name has mutated. BB has yet to read a single one of her novels, and we've already renamed her Merry Balrog. No, there's no excuse. Although I have to tell you, straight up: I would read basically any novel written by Merry Balrog, because obviously you can trust someone who put that much thought into a pseudonym. And this is one of the many reasons why I don't understand the SF writers who insist that nothing people say online matters if they aren't posting under their real names. Have these people never noticed that choice of pseudonym tells you a lot about a person? Whereas a real name, at best, only tells you something about the person's parents.)
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[identity profile] puckling.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 07:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I am looking for books on what gay life was like in New York City before Stonewall - say, from 1930 to 1960.

Ooooooh, ooooooh, pick me pick me! Well, actually, it's not exactly the time period you wanted (1890-1940) and it's only about gay men instead of all queer culture, but Gay New York (http://www.amazon.com/Gay-New-York-Culture-1890-1940/dp/0465026214/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1286910118&sr=8-1) might do something for you.

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You beat me to it! *grin*

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[identity profile] an-sceal.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)
You might like this book, for your Gay New York history:

http://www.amazon.com/Gay-New-York-Culture-1890-1940/dp/0465026214/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1286910327&sr=8-1

I have it, and it's quite extensive.

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De-lurking to say I don't know a lot about queer history, but from the pre-Stonewall era I did read the biography of Harry Hay (founder of the Radical Faeries) "The Trouble with Harry Hay" in a class on American Revolutionaries and thought it was great. -rabbitrabbit

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[identity profile] laceymcbain.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I haven't read any of Mary Balogh, but she's from Saskatchewan, where I'm from. That's actually her real name (her married name, anyway) and not a pseud. It's Hungarian, I think.

Anyway, she's a lovely woman. I've met her at a writing conference once. Can't help on the reading order, but I don't think most of the books are connected, so you can probably leap in with any of them. I'll let someone who's more familiar steer you on that front.
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[identity profile] sdwolfpup.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
That camera description is exactly what I'm looking for, too. For the same reasons. Heh. I shall be watching this closely!

[identity profile] dragonpaws.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 07:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I recommend the 'Slightly" and "Simply" series as good starts- they're both fun. The "Simply" series focuses on women teaching at a particular school for girls (ooh!). The "Slightly" series is more focused on the usual Lord/Lady thing. They overlap, and the series share characters and are best read in order.

There's also the "Huxtables" series- "First Comes Marriage," "Then Comes Seduction," "At Last Comes Love" in that order. The main characters are a family.

Basically, there's no bad Balogh as long as you stick to the series (her stand-alones vary- some very good and original, some... not so much). The only trick is to start at the beginning of the series in question, if you're a completist. They can be read out of order, though.
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[identity profile] holli.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a Panasonic Lumix DMC-FZ18, and I like it a a lot. I'm still getting the hang of all the various settings and things, but it's got a great lens, isn't as gigantic as an SLR, and takes better pictures than a little point-and-shoot. Something like that might be good for you; I've also heard really good things about the Canon S90.

[identity profile] ladysunflow.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I definitely recommend the Slightly/Simply series by Mary Balogh, which I love to bits and re-read often. It actually begins with two vaguely related prequel books: One Night for Love and A Summer to Remember, followed by 6 books in the Slightly... saga, and 4 in the Simply... series. I don't remember any straightforward infidelity or non-con in these.

Two books of hers I don't recommend are The Secret Pearl (in which the heroine resorts to prostitution and AFAIR there are some dub-con to non-con scenes), and Thief of Dreams (in which the hero was too abusive and deceitful for my liking).

[identity profile] dragonpaws.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah yes, The Secret Pearl. I never imagined one could have dub-con with a beta hero, yet there it was. Plus my favoritest romance novel trope ever- The hero who Doesn't Trust Women because his Slutty Stepmother tried to seduce/rape him.

Because that happens all the time. Yeah. :(

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[identity profile] hradzka.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Marijane Meaker's HIGHSMITH: A ROMANCE OF THE 1950S (http://www.amazon.com/Highsmith-Romance-1950s-Marijane-Meaker/dp/1573441716) has some interesting personal recollections of being a lesbian in New York in the fifties (as well as the author's romance with legendary thriller writer Patricia Highsmith). Some smallest details are particularly striking: there were restaurants in Manhattan that would refuse to serve women who wore pants, rather than a skirt.

[identity profile] littleheaven70.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I got a Canon S5IS mega-zoom, because I was really annoyed with the shutter lag on my old compact. I love this camera. It's only 8MP, but unless you're blowing stuff up to A2 you don't need more. It has a 12x optical zoom, so you can get really good close portrait shots without getting all up in someone's face - great for photographing kids when you don't want them to know. I did loads of research before I bought it, and it has one of the better (ie less) shutter-lag ratings out of all the non-slr digital cameras. You can take photos in low light, although you'll need a steady hand to prevent shake. I just neglect to raise the flash and it adjusts the shutter speed accordingly (in auto mode). You can either put it on auto and just snap away, or go full manual for specific effects. Oh, it has a fantastic macro on it, as well. And it takes very nice video. I use it instead of my video camera, now.

Having said all that, I'm not sure that model is available any longer, but I'm sure there's a new version around. Mine cost me $500NZ (about $375US) a couple of years ago.

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[identity profile] winter-elf.livejournal.com 2010-10-13 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
actually, I got the upgrade to yours (the SX20IS), and it's slower in shutter lag - because the higher megapixels. I was looking at someone's camera in front of me at a con with the S5IS and he was getting amazing pics (we talked cameras for a while) - I think they lost some when they pushed out the next model - so you DID get a good camera there. If they still made that one when I was looking, that's the one I would have gotten.

Tough to find the one and only right camera

[identity profile] geordie.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
For shutter delay you could start here http://www.cameras.co.uk/html/shutter-lag-comparisons.cfm

There are several down at the 1/5th of a second mark which also have a lot of lens, Canon SX20IS and Nikon Coolpix P100 for a start. But it depends what you mean by a lot of optical zoom, these are both lenses with electronics wrapped around them, they are dominated by the lens. I think both viewfinders are electronic.

An SLR would give you less zoom but instantaneous shutter but they tend to be big, but they may be the last refuge of the real viewfinder. A decent lens for an SLR will cost as much as the SX20 or P100... which also does full HD video.

The Canon G12 and Nikon P7000 are a pair of high end cameras with shorter lenses but are otherwise very capable and have optical viewfinders. Stasia uses the G10 (or is it a 9) and it seems to work for her, but if you don't just want to use automatic modes these can introduce you to a lot more settings than you might like. Ooo, the G12 does high dynamic range, mmm.

There's a condescending article on technique here http://www.kenrockwell.com/tech/shutter-lag.htm

I'm afraid you probably need to try them. And there's loads of options I didn't even glance at.

[identity profile] jenlev.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
How about the Canon Powershot SX20IS ? I recommended one to [livejournal.com profile] troyswann this past summer after my local camera shop recomended it as a good in-between camera for her. By in between, they meant, not a $2000.00 slr-with-big-honkin-zoom-lens, and bigger as well as faster than a simpler point and shoot. I think they're just about to put out the next version of this camera.

Granted the sensor is smaller than the 7D or 50D, but as long as you're not trying to shoot in impossibly dark alleys you might be just fine. Has what seems to be a very good optical zoom.
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[personal profile] stasia 2010-10-12 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Now that Geordie's commented, I can.

I use the Canon G9 and I love it. It's got enough zoom (I could always use more, but I'm a zoom hog - I would LOVE to have the option for a MEGA-zoom lens and a MEGA-macro lens). It does great GREAT macro pictures. It's bigger than the standard pocket-camera, but I keep it in my purse.

Geordie got me a good leather cover for it - I'll have to ask if he remembers where he got it. It's the one accessory I really recommend.

My flickr has some of my shots; you can poke around there and see what the camera does. (While it's not an exciting picture, this one shows some of the macro capabilities.)

(And this is the front of my house, and here, I zoomed in to show the Kitty.)

Anyway, it's great and I love it.

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[identity profile] ohevet-likro.livejournal.com 2010-10-12 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I second [livejournal.com profile] dragonpaws about the "Simply", "Slightly" and Huxtable series by Mary Balogh but just wanted to add that she wrote another 2 books in the Huxtable series: "Seducing an Angel" and "A Secret Affair". The latter isn't her strongest book but it ties up the series pretty well.
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[personal profile] lorem_ipsum 2010-10-13 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
I have a Canon EOS Rebel T1i, which is probably more camera than you want; it's slightly better than your basic entry-level digital SLR. I got it in March and my photos have improved a thousand percent in the months since. I took an actual Intro to Photog class, but it turns out that a lot of the stuff that I really needed to learn involved "developing" a digital photo. A recent Lifehacker tutorial on using "levels" has done me wonders just in the last couple of weeks.

Anyway, I highly recommend this camera buying guide. A dSLR can do everything on automatic (autofocus is a great thing when you've forgotten your glasses), or partly/fully manual.

Fast shutter speed. I want to hit the button and have the camera respond by taking the picture at that moment.

Watch out, because "shutter speed" is a term of art that does not quite mean what you are looking for.

Whatever it is that makes you able to take in-focus photos of fast-moving people in relatively low light conditions (in other words, indoors, during the daytime) without the flash. I know there are cameras that can do this!

The Exposure settings section of this Wikipedia article addresses the options you can try if your camera lets you do partial/full manual. Also, try multiple exposures and/or sensitive "film" (in the digital world that means a high ISO setting, like 400).

A camera that does not require a degree to use. Or, if a degree is required, it should be one in biochemistry or forensic osteology, not photography or engineering.

For the love of sanity, try not to look too deeply into Photographer Math.

[identity profile] carly-sullivan.livejournal.com 2010-10-13 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Re your question on gay history, perhaps this would be helpful.
http://www.amazon.com/Other-Side-Silence-Identities-Twentieth-Century/dp/B000H2MFAO/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1286935535&sr=8-1

I know the author, respect his work, and think it may have what you want.

[identity profile] raisintorte.livejournal.com 2010-10-13 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
I love Mary Balogh! I second starting with the Slightly/Simply series. I recommend with reservations One Night for Love and A Summer to Remember which are prequels to the Slightly Simply series and I don't think are as good but are good for background. I also really really really enjoyed her more recent Huxtable Quintet Series.

Another author BB may like is Loretta Chase. She has a series that runs: Miss Wonderful, Mr. Impossible, Lord Perfect, and Last Night's Scandal that might be one of my favorite books series ever. The writing is just so well done. None of the heroines are stupid and there is no infidelity, under ageness, or non-con. Don't Tempt Me is also quite good.

Romance novels are my bread and butter. I will try just about anything historical once and it's so hard to find good authors who write well and I don't want to kill the heroines by the end of the book for being so freaking stupid. :-)

I also really like Julia Quinn, Liz Carlyle, Eloisa James, and Stephanie Laurens, but I'm pretty sure Eloisa and Stephanie both at some point break the infidelity rule.

[identity profile] dragonpaws.livejournal.com 2010-10-13 04:32 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, oh, oh, Loretta Chase, YES! Mr. Impossible is my very favorite.

I also second Quinn and James, most especially Eloisa James. James does some very, very good female friendships in her romances. Personal favorite: The Devil in Winter, but there is some dub-con in the "I have to marry you to escape my horrible family and we have to consummate the marriage before they find out and I barely know you" way.

I stopped reading Laurens once I noticed her sex scenes were both incredibly formulaic and probably anachronistic (using a big pearl necklace as anal beads in an upper-class woman's fourth sexual encounter in her life in a book set in Regency England and she doesn't even blink? No...). Haven't read Carlyle myself- I'll have to check her out!

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[identity profile] winter-elf.livejournal.com 2010-10-13 04:37 am (UTC)(link)
something I forgot to add in my other camera post... the higher the megapixel you set the camera to 'record' at, and the lower the light.. .the slower it is. If you set them for a lower pixel ratio (I always have it set at highest), and take outdoors - you'll get faster

[identity profile] geeklite.livejournal.com 2010-10-13 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
I am fairly sure that come Dec 25 this year I will be wishing everyone a Merry Balrog.

[identity profile] bearfairie.livejournal.com 2010-10-13 04:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I see noone's recc'd Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg yet, which is a huge oversight. Talks about being lesbian/trans pre-stonewall. Leslie lived through that period hirself, and while the book is technically fiction, I know for fact it's loosely based on hir life. I don't remember whether or not the book takes place in NYC but it will give a pretty good sense of what the community around large urban areas in the US was like.

For more fiction, of course, there's Beebo Brinker by Ann Bannon - lesbian pre-stonewall pulp fiction which definitely is NYC based. Beebo Brinker is chronologically the first in a series, which includes Odd Girl Out and Journey to A Woman.

You can also check out http://www.glbtq.com/ - it's an online encyclopedia of lgbt culture, and has all kinds of awesome archives, including books, articles, photos, and information.

[identity profile] nessreader.livejournal.com 2010-10-13 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)

lesbian history - has your library got any Lilian Faderman? She did a big fascinating thing called Surpassing the Love of Men that was strong on victorian, east coast of america + britain, and another book called Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers which (is ages since I read it) was about 50s usa. Big thumbs up to both.


While am typing, it occurs to me that I meant to rec a YA novel to you when you were on your WWone brave aviationist kick, but didn't because (a) book two in trilogy - which Peyton kept adding to till there were 5 books in trilogy, and (b) romance-y.
However. Is not entirely romance novel, is brill early planes story, and does not matter if you didn't read book one.
Bullet point version of book one: Christina is orphan heiress, gets taken in by skeevy uncle with fallingdown manor, wants his son to marry her. Has 2 sons, big foxhunting lunk who he likes, and "the sensitive one" who wants to fly planes and drive automobiles in 1900. End of book 1, Christina elopes from fox hunt ball with aeroplane boy.
Book 2, which is the one I wanted to tell you about, is Edge of the Cloud by Peyton and is all him obsessing about his job and forgetting to be romantic, he gets shot down over the trenches at end of book and book 3 has C go back to fallingdown manor and make financial success of it with her inheritance, foxhunting lunk having disappeared in trenches too.

[identity profile] nessreader.livejournal.com 2010-10-13 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)

forgot to say: If you ever want to know the series order of a massmarket genre fiction, try this link:

fantasticfiction.co.uk (http://www.fantasticfiction.co.uk)

and look up the author in the little author box at top right. It shows series order, which books are standalone, blurb and cover art and what is due out in next few months. V handy for sf and crime and romance.

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[personal profile] stasia 2010-10-14 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I just today stumbled over this: Digital Camera Buying Guide

Stasia
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[identity profile] winter-elf.livejournal.com 2010-10-30 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
http://finance.yahoo.com/news/A-Love-Letter-to-a-nytimes-365722288.html?x=0

I know this was a while ago. But I just ran across this 'review' on the new Canon S95 - might be worth heading to a store to handle one and see what you think.

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