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thefourthvine) wrote2016-04-09 09:28 pm
College Stuff! (Not for Earthling, Thank God)
The redoubtable Cousin Z, my oldest nephew, is -- oh god oh god -- going to college next fall. He applied to many schools and got into most of them, and now, through assiduous research, careful internal debate, and, very likely, a color-coded spreadsheet with many tabs, he's narrowed down his options to Reed and Whitman. And now he's trying to make that final choice.
Z had very good experiences visiting both schools, including talking with a Whitman admissions officer who described the school in Harry Potter house terms. He also went to an accepted-students reception for Reed where he went to hide in the kitchen because people, and then so many other guests (and also the host) had the same idea that it ended up being a reception-within-the-reception for people who hate receptions, all of them hiding in the kitchen and talking about how much they wished they weren't there.
Z is a very introverted person who is interested in applied math (his intended major), Doctor Who, social justice, Harry Potter, politics, Game of Thrones, and economics. His hobbies are reading fic, playing and writing music for his cello, and spending many hours at Starbucks with his study groups. (Also making color-coded spreadsheets.) He likes both Reed and Whitman because they're smaller schools where he felt comfortable on the campus, in large part because the students seemed like geeky introverts and giant weirdos, so pretty much his people.
It seems like either school could be a happy place for him. But this is Z, so he is in hardcore information-gathering mode. He could use more data. (Z could always use more data.) He needs to know the differences between the two! Find a way to make a choice! My question for you is: do you know anything about Reed or Whitman? Do you have any experiences to relate or any data Z can gather? It would help.
Thank you!
Z had very good experiences visiting both schools, including talking with a Whitman admissions officer who described the school in Harry Potter house terms. He also went to an accepted-students reception for Reed where he went to hide in the kitchen because people, and then so many other guests (and also the host) had the same idea that it ended up being a reception-within-the-reception for people who hate receptions, all of them hiding in the kitchen and talking about how much they wished they weren't there.
Z is a very introverted person who is interested in applied math (his intended major), Doctor Who, social justice, Harry Potter, politics, Game of Thrones, and economics. His hobbies are reading fic, playing and writing music for his cello, and spending many hours at Starbucks with his study groups. (Also making color-coded spreadsheets.) He likes both Reed and Whitman because they're smaller schools where he felt comfortable on the campus, in large part because the students seemed like geeky introverts and giant weirdos, so pretty much his people.
It seems like either school could be a happy place for him. But this is Z, so he is in hardcore information-gathering mode. He could use more data. (Z could always use more data.) He needs to know the differences between the two! Find a way to make a choice! My question for you is: do you know anything about Reed or Whitman? Do you have any experiences to relate or any data Z can gather? It would help.
Thank you!

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Is your nephew from the Northwest? Reed definitely has more of a national reputation, but locally, Whitman is considered extremely positively and some people think Reed is a bit more snobbish. (But that's by Northwest definitions of snobbish -- I doubt it'd register in California or Northeast.)
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I can put you in touch with my friend if you'd like to follow up!
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I have heard of both, btw, having gone to Pomona College (disclaimer, I graduated almost 25 yrs ago).
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I've lived abt 12 blocks from Reed for over 20 years, but I must admit that my age has meant I dont hang out where Reedies tend to congregate. However, most everything I've heard is pretty positive - the campus is lovely and Portland offers everything a young geek might want.
a friend attended Whitman, and his memories were fond. as dafna said the colleges themselves have similarities, so one thing Z will want to consider is what he wants/needs from the surrounding community.
And not that it matters a whit, but my grandmother attended Reed in the 20s (math major) and afaik thoroughly enjoyed herself
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Another sibling started off at Johns Hopkins, and transferred after her first semester to a small, excellent school in the middle of nowhere because she loathed living in a major city.
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Obvs, this is manageable by simply walking into your advisor's office every semester and asking what your grades are -- which is what I did, when I was there -- but also just as obvs, that's far more manageable for some students than others.
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As much as I understand where Reed is coming from on this -- it's part and parcel of Reed's academic culture, and isn't going to change easily -- GPAs are mostly used for communicating with people outside the school, not inside it, and need to be in the same scale as is being used elsewhere.
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They also do the same thing as Reed - send a letter of explanation of their grading policy along with any transcript. It's hit and miss whether it matters - for me, I think having the Mudd name connected to me (for people who've heard of it) has been more helpful than I've been hurt by having a lower GPA than I would have gotten elsewhere.
(I'm not sure it would be possible to make GPA's equivalent across all schools while still having some schools be more difficult/intense...)
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So the points made above are good ones. When Z visited the colleges - did he spend time OUTSIDE the college grounds getting the lay of the city? If not - he might want to do that to add to his spreadsheets.
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(Good luck to Z!)
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And I, who grew up across the Sound from Seattle, never seriously considered Evergreen for the reason
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When our elder son was college-shopping, he got acceptances from Rennselaer Polytechnic, Rochester Institute of Technology, and Vanderbilt, and ended up picking Vanderbilt on the grounds that if he wanted to spend four years in a town where there was a foot of snow on the ground from December through March, he could just as well stay at home.
Also, he had apparently met some female Vanderbilt students on a school trip down to Washington DC, and was favorably impressed by the flower of southern womanhood or something like that. (He was a teenaged boy at the time, after all.) So Z might also put a bit of thought into his impressions of the local dating pool as regards his preferences, whatever they may be . . . which sort of gives Reed the edge, from the sound of it.
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As someone who's in academia , who went to a college much like Reed, and who teaches at a college more like Whitman than Reed (good regional reputation but not well known outside the region), I would suggest (based on my alums' experiences) that Z think a bit about post-college location preferences: if he's likely to stay in the Pacific Northwest, it probably makes little difference which school he chooses, but if he wants or expects to live elsewhere, and/or if he is contemplating careers that are likely to require grad school, Reed's reputation *may* be an advantage.
That said, it wouldn't necessarily be a *big* advantage, especially in academia; much more important would be 1) a happy, stable college experience that would allow him to flourish intellectually and socially, and 2) strong relationships with professors that develop over multiple years and that translate into thoughtful, knowledgeable letters of recommendation. And it sounds like he could get that at either school.
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Another, related factor that may or may not be relevant to Z to consider is how easy their respective Disability Resource departments are to deal with. ASU's being very easy to deal w/ is the only reason I haven't wanted to set anything on fire.
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Also, holy moly I remember you talking about Z like, a decade ago. What even is this.
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Other addition: Reed's internships and connections are more likely to be in the city or maybe the next city over, which can be nice if you are not a super brave soul willing to move to a new place on your own. Whitman's connections are going to minimally be in a different town because Walla Walla is small, so that will take wider connections or greater bravery to implement. Now, that's not a deal breaker--if you have connections in the area it's nice to stay with family for a summer. I was in a small town school across the country and managed to find an internship in my hometown, which was amazing! It's just something to consider.
Last addition: Most college campuses have decent food and no one will starve. Portland has great food, though, and great music, which Walla Walla still lags on somewhat (the winery fame is good, but leading to more bed and breakfast or higher end restaurants than pizza-by-the-slice) but if that's not a concern, no big. You can always make mac and cheese in your dorm kitchen. When my best friend was there, though, finding a restaurant to take your date always needed a car to get to tri-cities.
My cred: local, academic who has worked with grads, known friends who attended, or interviewed at said schools. I chose a small town for college, and Portland for grad school.
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I loved, loved my time at Mudd, but I spent 4 years wondering why the hell Claremont, which barely got enough rain to not be classified a desert, was so desperate to look like Massachusetts. Especially since the architecture on the campuses was more SoCal than New England. While I was there, the campuses were slowly getting better at switching to local landscaping.
[I don't have much to add on the Reed vs. Whitman debate - I know I got scared away from Reed on my campus visit due to the high drug use. I highly recommend trying to talk with current students in Z's presumed major and see how happy they are - and what sort of research/internship opportunities they have]
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I will say that I loved living in Eastern Washington while I was there, though! Reed I was impressed by because Portland, while very green in the rainy season while students are there, is very dry in the summer. If campuses let their lawns go a little gold, it impresses me, because who cares if students aren't even there in force? I otherwise I have no inside info besides the appearance of the campus on drive through, and that was also some time ago (10 years or so.)
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But I have to say, I found reading through the comments fascinating! I went to MIT, and it kind of sounds to me like Reed is basically the East Campus to Whitman's West Campus, culturally speaking (though West Campus is still intense, which it sounds like Whitman mostly isn't). I was firmly on the east side, so I know which one I'd pick, but plenty of people seem happy with having chosen the other option. And people react to intensity differently -- it sounds like that might actually be the key question for your cousin.
One last thing I would say is that he should keep in mind that whichever choice he makes doesn't have to be the final choice for the entirety of his college career. It is totally okay to realize that maybe the particular experience you are having is not what you thought it would be or no longer what you want. People transfer! It's okay! So he shouldn't feel like he's locked in forever with this decision.
(MIT is also famous for burning people out. I know many, many dropouts and people who transferred after a year or finished up school elsewhere who are leading happy, successful lives, and who are still glad for the time they had at MIT despite the struggles. Heck, I have one friend to transferred elsewhere for a year, and then changed her mind, came back, and finished her degree! But there are also some who wish they'd gone elsewhere to begin with. There are just some things it's hard to know until you go through them. )
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I graduated in 2005 so both schools may have changed (I'm almost positive the reed drug thing is still happening) but that is my experience as a Whittie who also considered Reed and who has friends who went to Reed.
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The college selection process gets essentially blind and arbitrary past a certain point, though. I'm sure he could have a good experience at either.
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Reed is very academically intense. It's one of the top five producers of math/science Ph.D.s per capita, in between MIT and my own alma mater, Swarthmore. If Z thought high school was boring because it was too easy, Reed would be a good choice.
Small colleges tend not to have many applied math & stats faculty members. I know Reed has a great pure-math program, but I don't know what their applied program looks like. I know Whitman was advertising in stats recently, but I don't know what the result of that search was. Definitely it would be worth checking the research interests of faculty members at each school.
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Whitties are known not only for marrying each other (something like 40% of marriages/long-term two-person partnerships are Whittie-Whittie pairings; I don't know of any stats about poly relationships) but also for networking with each other - there are plenty of stories of people making alumni connections, sometimes across twenty year gaps between classes, and building their networks that way.
I was just back on campus last fall for my ten-year reunion, and I was blown away by the work my fellow alums are doing, the balance and satisfaction they have in their lives, and the amount of justice awareness they had. To illustrate, I never once found myself in a "systemic racism 101," or similar, kind of conversation. Everyone was already on board with kyriarchal oppression and its problems and interested in talking about how to respond to it. It was also true that there was a lot of warmth and receptivity among people at the reunion, including folks I wasn't close with while in school. The sense of community remains.
Z may have already looked up the demographic data about the student bodies; I don't know the current numbers. When I was at Whitman it was overwhelmingly white, both in terms of student body and faculty, and mostly middle- to upper-class. I know efforts were being made to provide financial aid packages that would open up the school to more students of color and more students from working class families. It seemed like a good place for the people I knew at various points on the queer spectrum, but the disclaimer on that is that as a straight ciswoman I don't have lived experience to back the perception up.
I was also in a sorority at Whitman, and one of my best friends was in a fraternity. So if Z has any questions about Greek life, I can speak to what it was like 10 years ago. :P
I am super happy to correspond with Z, or with Z through you, to provide any particular data. LMK, and good luck to Z on his choice! May he remember that transfer applications are always possible if needed.
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So it's a mixed bag.
Reed has a stress culture, and it has a "work hard, play hard" vibe, but it also has a lot of support available for people who take advantage of it. There was free counseling at the health center that I wish I'd continued to take advantage of. Professors have plenty of office hours and are always willing to email or chat in person. I think a lot of the stress at Reed comes from people not entirely trusting that they can ask for resources or somehow feeling they're failing if they need to ask, which isn't true at all! Nobody actually looks down on each other for using the resources available.
When I was there, the math department was mostly theory, but I know they just added a CS major, so it sounds like the math department is expanding. (The CS classes used to be just folded in with the math department.) First-year math involves first learning Calculus in historical order (integration first, like the Greeks did it,) then taking Intro to Analysis where you build a numerical system from scratch and define e and pi. (I was a Chemistry major but we had to take the first rung of math courses for our distribution requirements.)
The new performing arts building is fantastic and has a lot of practice spaces, and there are definitely going to be more people there interested in doing, like, chamber music or jazz or whatever, so there are lots of opportunities to pursue music. Also, the Grey Fund really is great, I went on a couple trips as a Freshman and wish I'd taken more.
Reed seems to be a good place to be queer, trans, or genderqueer, but that's second-hand experience.
You may have heard about Renn Fayre. I have had friends who really didn't like Renn Fayre and either stayed off campus or in their rooms the entire weekend, but there are also plenty of things to do during the weekend if you don't enjoy partying--there's always a quiet, substance-free room set up with movies playing all weekend and comfy couches which is a safe haven for quiet introverts.
Um... I really liked the dorms and lived on campus all four years, because I didn't want to have to travel to lab, but there are also opportunities off campus or the block of apartments owned by the campus which is kind of half-and-half (If your roommate at the apartments has to leave or moves, it doesn't affect your lease, which is nice.) After your freshman year you get a single room all to yourself if you're on campus, and seniors have their own dorm room lottery for rooms which are reserved for them. Reed guarantees housing for all four years, which is nice, but there's a room lottery so you're not guaranteed a specific dorm. The divided doubles are also fairly private, especially if you get the inner room; you do not have to hang out with your roommate.
Campus is very walkable and there is a strip of shops nearby if you need to buy anything, and bus access to downtown and various places around the city, including to the airport. Portland is a little big city; it's nowhere near the size of Seattle or San Jose, but it's big enough to have tons of stuff to do and bands and performers come through. And there's Powell's. There is a bit of a bubble effect going on where people tend to stay on campus rather than go into town, which is good and bad, but it does make the community feel close.
I guess if I had to make one last point (last one), I'd say that Reedies have always struck me as very giving. There's a lot of stuff that people do for the community, and a tradition of making things "Kommie"--available to all. Whether it's the Meatsmoke Crew doing food for the Renn Fayre Feast every year, the Reed Kommunual Sh*t Kollektiv seeding tiny trikes all over campus for people to ride, the free barrier protection in the bathrooms from the Safer Sex Society, the free coffee, tea, and energy drinks at the Stim Table during finals every semester... Reedies want to be there for each other. Reedies hold doors open for each other on campus more often than I'm used to out in the real world.
So... yeah? You can call it cult-like if you want, and as I mentioned not everyone I know thinks the positives outweighed the negatives, but I had a really good experience and recommend it, alongside all the advice I wish I'd listened to when I was a student there.
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Curious, is this not what everyone does?
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Back when, Reed's math program was theoretical only; there wasn't much of anything available in terms of applied math. That was a problem when I graduated, and discovered that baccalaureate-only math jobs are for applied math, and I had none. I've since had a good chunk of applied math coursework at the masters level. Turns out, that theoretical foundation I had is utterly bizarre for an undergrad math degree; no non-Reed professor I met ever really had a solid grasp on what I could and couldn't do off the cuff. (Could: prove anything, understand the theoretical underpinnings of anything, think rigorously, correctly extend a bit of mathematics to a new application, even if the extension wasn't straightforward. Couldn't: solve a calculus problem in my head without looking up in a book the calculus-equivalent of my multiplication tables. Most of my grad-level applied math teachers thought I was brilliant, but I got caught out on a few midterms with not having at my fingertips some calculus fact that "every" math major has memorized.) My understanding is that the math program has gotten a little more traditional on the calculus front, at least, but I'm not familiar with the current program. My guess it's still more like what I did than isn't.
Concerning drugs: I never did drugs while I was there, and never felt the least pressure to do them. From anyone. Ever. In fact, it seemed to be a code of honor among the people who did use drugs to not be peer-pressure assholes about it. (Which isn't to say that they were never assholes. People who aren't sober have a way of not thinking carefully about whether they're being jerks.) It was very easy to have a social life and social circle that never had drugs in it, but it would also have been easy to do drugs, should I have wanted to. I will second the comment above about the drug education on campus was pretty usefully informative. However, I also know that at least some things have changed: back in my day, campus security considered a student's drug use no concern of theirs; nowadays, I hear they do consider it their concern, and there are infractions and disciplinary actions? (I am very much not equipped to speak about whatever that currently is; I was stunned to discover that there apparently are rules on campus now? In my day there were literally two: no guns on campus, and no walking on the roofs.)
Portland versus a college town: You know, when I was there, most people didn't leave campus very often? And I hear it's much the same now. But it's true, there are cool things to do and places to go when you want to leave campus. And it's not that urban of a city; if you want to get into the countryside, it's not that hard.
Burnout: I think the attrition rate in my freshman dorm was 50%? Partly because of money, but a lot of it was people crashing and burning academically, typically because they couldn't handle the workload. After I graduated, I read nothing but YA for a year -- I could not stomach voluntarily reading anything written at a higher grade-level than that -- and it was a year or two before I could even think about grad school.
Socially: Reed was the first time in my life that I felt at home. I went from being a freaky weirdo in my high school, to being one of the squarest, boringly mundane people on campus. Reed was where I grew into myself, and better, became happy to be myself. It was lovely. It's also where I met my wife. (In fact, I think most of the people from my freshman dorm who didn't drop out ended up marrying each other later. Seriously, there's like four married couples from a dorm of thirty people, only half of whom came back for their sophomore year.) However, I have friends who feel exactly the opposite way about Reed: it never felt like home, it was a never-ending set of social battles for them. I do know of a couple people who left Reed because the social environment didn't work for them.
...and I'm happy to answer questions, such as I can, if you or Z have them.
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Myself, I went to Carleton in Minnesota, which, at a very rough glance, seems to correspond in some ways to Whitman - small student body (it was around 1500 when I was there, now about 2000), in a small town (Northfield is around 20k, Walla Walla is 30k), progressive social justice leaning academically good liberal arts college. (OTOH, my Reedie friend I met while I was at/he was working at Carleton, so I suspect decent comparisons can be made that direction, too.) The community the college is in can be important - I found being in a small town 45 minutes away from the Twin Cities to be nice - the social network I had was close, strong, and campus-based (we only went to the cities once or twice a year). I knew other people who chafed at the small community, though, and escaped to the cities whenever they had the chance. Is there anything that Z really values that Whitman/Walla Walla doesn't provide? If so, he'd either quietly let go of it (and find other interesting things to do, of course!), or start feeling very unhappy that he doesn't have a chance to do it. I didn't go downhill skiing for 25 years after I left high school, but it wasn't central to my life - but I did find folk dance and the science fiction club and so many other things. When he thinks about his visits, and the kinds of student clubs and life that he can discern (which really is only the surface of what's there - the campus web sites can only do so much), does one of them feel more like home?
From where I am, I wouldn't worry about academics or future career or grad school (unless he's a very driven pre-med or somesuch, in which case he wouldn't be considering either of those anyway) - either Reed or Whitman will be fine for that. And the real secret to a liberal arts degree was given to me by my uncle, who also went to Carleton: he said, "any degree from Carleton would have prepared me equally well for any career." A place like that, sure, gives you a fair bit of knowledge in some specific areas, but more than that it teaches you how to learn and explore and find the paths in life that work for you. So don't worry about the academics, but rather look for the place that you can call home (this advice is equally well suited to choosing a major, once that becomes relevant).
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I found Portland pretty delightful when I visited, though I do find the overwhelming whiteness of Oregon in general kind off-putting. It looks like Walla Walla is pretty similar though, so that might not be a big deal to Z.
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I read most of the Earthling posts over my pregnancy, so in my head Z is perpetually 12!
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I know history profs at both schools - they are all supremely dedicated and thoughtful teachers who truly love their students. And I think that will be true across the faculty at Reed and Whitman.