Grrr. I am giving electronic nasty looks to both your "fan" and your ex; telling someone else's secrets is not acceptable behavior. That sucks, and you have my sympathy. Also, I promise to kick those people on the shins if I ever meet them in real life.

I'm interested in your mother's reaction. Is she anti-porn for moral or religious reasons or is it an exploitation thing? Because if the latter, I would have thought she'd be OK with stories about fictional characters - I mean, no one's getting hurt. And if the former, I would have thought she'd have a problem with the slash aspect, too. So I find that odd, but I probably just haven't thought the whole thing through properly.